Friday, October 29, 2010

I'm not a peedo!!!

Elizabeth is attending a new nursery as of last week. When I enrolled her I gave them a password in case anyone else other than Nuch and I pick her up.
Last week my mum picked her up and even though she had never been before a woman who was picking her child up let her into the nursery. Once she found Elizabeth she gave them the password and took Elizabeth home, no probs!
This week when I picked Elizabeth up, I was waiting to get in the front door, later I'll be given own key fob to get in. A real snotty woman came to the door and just said "I can't let you in, I don't know who you are, you could be anyone!" you can imagine how this made me feel?
I got through the door about 5 seconds after she had gone through and made sure she held the four doors open to Elizabeths room, hoping to make her feel uncomfortable. I wanted to say "can you prove who you are?" however I remained silent.
Once I got to Elizabeths room, the nurses in the place wouldn't let me take her out because know one knew me. I gave them the password, but this didn't help. The manager had to be found who was the only person recognised me. Last week my mum wasn't recognised but because she was a woman, she was allowed to take her. Because I'm a bloke, I was treated like a potential pedophile until I was given the all clear.
Yes, I know security has to be paramount, but it as to be standard for men and women. Have people already forgot the extreme case of the female nursery nurse taking porno pics of 2 month old kids in her charge?
Anyway, that's my rant for this week....


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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

What it means is that you can confidently trust these people to look after your daughter. It was understandable why they had to be extra vigilant as they did not recognise you especially in this day and age when there are plenty of sick-minded individuals who prey on young kids.

Your story reminded me of my neighbour in Thailand who went to bring his son back home from a nursery school. He was refused because he had never previously picked up his son before as well as being unable to remember his son's real name.

BangkokRam said...

Yes, you're right about the security. My major gripe was the difference I was treated compared to my Mum. As a bloke the suspicion is always 10 fold compared to a woman.